5 Things You Absolutely Must Say To Your Partner In Bed

"He made no noise." Four words were enough for me to understand why my dear friend here was so heartbroken over the person she had slept with the night before. Of course I knew exactly why it was a big deal, I had been there. There are a certain things you are just not supposed to say to your partner when you are in bed with them. That is an unspoken rule. Another unspoken rule is what you absolutely MUST say to your partner when you are in bed with them.

The range of this is quite wide to be honest. A simple moan will go miles, and some encouraging words might get you the best orgasm you have had. And it is all very subjective. But there are certain things we can all agree will hit the right spots (no pun intended). Remember to be genuine though. Here are a few things you can try whispering the next time you are in bed with your partner.

"You taste so good!"

Yes, they want to hear that. Man or woman, everyone is conscious about how their privates come across to the other person. Therefore, let them know it is all good, nay great. This way you also make it about them rather than yourself.

"Oh dear God!"

Not in the exasperated way of course, in the way that lets them know whatever they are doing is bang on and shouldn't cease. If they are touching all the right nerves and spots, commend them on their prowess, it bolster them buckets.

"I love it when you..."

This lets your partner know what specifically worked wonders for you and what they should definitely be doing again. And again. Let them know they are good at something, and watch how they will make it their personal mission to please you.

"*their name*"

This one goes a long way, in ways you won't even recognise. That little ego boost, it will embolden them as much as it will make them feel special. We all have a tiny Narcissus inside us, don't we?

"Thank you"

After you are people are done, be humble and thankful for what they have done for you. Be appreciative and value the moment, the connection. It feels great to hear.