Men, Here's How To Be A Giver In Bed And Make Sex Better

Let's be honest: people can get selfish in bed. More often than not, it is the men who tend to be more of a taker than a giver. And let me tell you, women hate it. So do gay men. Everyone on the receiving end of such sexual behaviour hates it. Wouldn't you? Imagine pleasuring your partner only to find that pleasuring you isn't a priority for them at all.

Of course, there are days when people are just not up for it, and that is okay. But to be a selfish partner in bed and not care about the other person's sexual needs is a huge turn off. So dear men, here are some things to keep in mind so as how not to be that person.

1. Take your time

Don't go straight for the kill. I am putting this one out first because it turns people off the most. Take time with her body, explore it, discover it, find out her erogenous spots and go to town on them. Going straight for the kill makes it look like you just want to be done before you start.

2. Don't be overbearing

She isn't there for the sole purpose of pleasing you. Sex is symbiotic, and to overpower her, demand something she isn't comfortable with, or be a little too forceful when she isn't in that zone is a turn off.

3. Women love oral sex as much as men do...

...if not more. Although they may not be as vocal about it as men are. Be the kind of man who gives as good as gets because it lets her know that you are as eager to please her as you expect her to be.

Being a giver in bed shouldn't be optional, you know. Imagine if both the partners are only focusing on themselves - well, there will be no point of connection then, will there?