27-year-old Sangeetha, a teacher, removed her mangalsutra after eight years of marriage
27-year-old Sangeetha removed her mangalsutra - a sacred thread worn around the neck by married women - after eight years of marriage. "Why don't men wear mangalsutra? Why should women be enslaved this way? It's not that only if I wear mangalsutra, he's my husband. It's enough if we are happy and faithful," she said.
A teacher by profession, Sangeetha was among the 21 women who voluntarily took off their mangalsutras or "thalis" early on Tuesday morning in Chennai as part of a protest planned by Dravidar Kazhagam, an organisation which says it is committed to promoting the ideology of rationalist leader Periyar.
Her husband, who was already a member of the movement when they got married, stood firmly beside her. "I never asked her to come or read any books. I never thrust anything. It was her decision," said Krishnamoorthy, also a teacher.
Sangeetha says that over the years, she read and accepted Periyar's views who had said that the
mangalsutra was a symbol of a woman's enslavery and the man's control over his wife's body.
The Dravidar Kazhagam planned its protests after a television channel discussing the relevance of the
mangalsutra in modern society was targeted with crude bombs at its Chennai office.
However, the protest was banned soon after the Madras High Court stayed permission for the event, overruling its earlier order. Around 150 couples had gathered to participate in the event.
"Liberty to think and the freedom of expression are being snatched away. These are guaranteed by the Constitution. We wouldn't defy but would approach appropriate legal forum," said Dr Veeramani, President of Dravidar Kazhagam.
The organization has been holding this ritual for the last 80 years. But the Tamil Nadu government banned it this year, contending that it would hurt religious sentiments and incite communal tension.