"These statements are so obvious, nauseating that it takes away the agency that a young woman has over her own life. The worrying factor in these cases is that parents are so isolated from their kids that they are not even alarmed in time," said Shobha De, author and columnist, when asked how she views the statements that put the onus on the victim in a brutal murder case as Shraddha Walkar, who was killed by her boyfriend.