When entrepreneur Lee Hee-tae told his parents he was going into the porn business, he urged them not to worry about social disapproval in conservative South Korea and to think about the money instead.
The financial case, he said, was clear: built-in domestic demand plus a growing global fascination with South Korea, thanks to booming K-pop and K-drama exports.
However, due to deeply conservative social mores, South Korea's adult industry is a minnow compared to neighbouring Japan.
It produces around 2,000 adult movies a year, compared with what Lee's research indicates is 2,000 a day made by Tokyo's $36.5-billion-dollar behemoth.
That, Lee said, is not only a lost opportunity but a personal tragedy for many South Koreans who are unable to properly discuss sex, desire, and sexuality because of its "taboo" nature.
"I'd like South Korea to be more open about sex," said Lee, whose adult content company Play Joker recently moved from making movies towards hosting live events.
While not illegal, the production of pornography is closely regulated in South Korea, with authorities requiring that images of genitalia be heavily blurred.
The country is also grappling with a "molka", or spycam, epidemic of illicitly filmed videos that include everything from women in public restrooms to leaked sex videos from K-pop stars.
Lee argued that the two phenomena are linked and said allowing a thriving local adult content industry would help prevent spycam crimes.
Local women's groups disagree.
"Their claim that the so-called 'free sexual culture' will help prevent the spread of illegal adult content is a blatant fallacy," the Suwon Women's Hotline said in a statement last month.
"It is nothing more than an attempt to further spread the culture of sexual violence."
Porn for women?
Lee said some people might "watch 'molka' because they don't understand adult content", and so don't understand there is a difference between professional pornography and illicit footage, he said.
Lee's company has produced around 500 adult films so far, the majority of them filmed in Japan using Japanese actors.
The bulk of them target male viewers but he can see an industry-wide trend with companies making more content specifically aimed at women, he said, adding that many Japanese producers have popular female-focused content.
On South Korea's adult cable channel "a surprising trend has emerged where the viewership from 11 am to 12:30 pm has significantly increased", he said, prompting industry research.
"It turns out women tune in after sending husbands to work and kids to school," he said.
However, Lee said South Korea has a web of social taboos and regulations that are "keeping the industry from reaching its full potential".
For example, putting a porn actor in a school uniform violates child protection laws. Or featuring a flight attendant uniform guarantees the production can "expect full-blown protest from flight attendants' unions".
"Thanks to K-pop, Korea's national brand has grown... and there are many countries now looking for Korean adult content," he said, but the existing industry is unable to meet demand.
Adults-only festival
Lee decided to focus on live events as a way to change attitudes but his attempt to hold South Korea's largest sex festival in April encountered online vitriol and legal challenges.
Women's groups branded the proposed festival in Suwon, south of Seoul, a "sex-exploitation event" and decried it as "quasi-prostitution".
Suwon authorities cancelled the event amid the backlash. After he found a new site in the capital, Seoul officials threatened to shut off the electricity and cancel the venue's licenses.
That eventually forced Lee to cancel, causing what he said were significant financial losses.
Lee is taking both Suwon authorities and some women's groups to court, seeking damages. The fallout has prompted some new lawmakers to question whether officials were right to cancel.
"What is wrong with hosting an adult-only festival?" incoming opposition lawmaker Chun Ha-ram, who won office in April parliamentary elections, wrote in a Facebook post.
"Authorities should take their hands off this. Unless it's blatantly illegal, state power has no right to interfere in the cultural sphere."
Such signs indicate the tide may be turning, at least a little, Lee said. He is planning another, larger event for June and said this time he won't back down.
South Korea needs to be less prudish about adult content, he said.
"I would like to remind people that we are all created through sex."
(Except for the headline, this story has not been edited by NDTV staff and is published from a syndicated feed.)
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